Thursday, February 09, 2017

meaningful life - charles chu

After all, how can we head in a meaningful direction when we don’t even know which way meaningful is? Charles Chu

https://betterhumans.coach.me/bill-watterson-how-to-find-your-lifes-meaning-3bc6a17be275#.x114r33jk




Monday, January 30, 2017

Shoe Dog, Phil Knight

“It seems wrong to call it ‘business’. It seems wrong to throw all those hectic days and sleepless nights, all those magnificent triumphs and desperate struggles, under that bland, generic banner: business. What we were doing felt like so much more. Each new day brought fifty new problems, fifty tough decisions that needed to be made, right now, and we were always acutely aware that one rash move, one wrong decision could be the end. The margin for error was forever getting narrower, while the stakes were forever creeping higher – and none of us wavered in the belief that ‘stakes’ didn’t mean ‘money’. For some, I realize, business is the all-out-pursuit of profits, period, full stop, but for us business was no more about making money than being human is about making blood. Yes, the human body needs blood. It needs to manufacture red and white cells and platelets and redistribute them evenly, smoothly, to all the right places, on time, or else. But that day-to-day business of the human body isn’t our mission as human beings. It’s a basic process that enables our higher aims, and life always strives to transcend the basic processes of living – and at some point in the late 1970’s, I did, too. I redefined winning, expanded it beyond my original definition of not losing, of merely staying alive. That was no longer enough to sustain me, or my company. We wanted, as all great businesses do, to contribute, and we dared to say so aloud. When you make something, when you improve something, when you deliver something, when you add some new thing or service to the lives of strangers, making them happier, or healthier, or safer, or better, and when you do it all crisply and efficiently, smartly, the way everything should be done but so seldom is – you’re participating more fully in the whole grand human drama. More than simply alive, you’re helping others to live more fully, and if that’s business, all right, call me a businessman.”

Maybe it will Grow On me.

Phil Knight Shoe Dog Pg 352 & 353

Friday, January 27, 2017

Never Lost - Daniel Boon

I have never been lost, but I will admit to being confused for several weeks. Daniel Boone

Women are always saying that men can't confess to being lost. Now I never really have that problem, I just like to solve the problem on my own.

Saturday, April 11, 2015

I would have wished you a better mind - Erasmus to Martin Luther

"...I would have wished you a better mind, were you not so delighted with your own. Wish me what you will, only not your mind, unless God has changed it for you.”

Source
Huizinga, Johan. Erasmus and the Age of Reformation.

- Martin Luther, Erasmus,

Sunday, January 11, 2015

Elisabeth Elliot


  • God will not protect you from anything that will make you more like Jesus.
  • Fear arises when we imagine that everything depends on us.
  • Today is mine. Tomorrow is none of my business. If I peer anxiously into the fog of the future I will strain my spiritual eyes so that I will not see clearly what is required of me now!
  • God never witholds from His child that which His love and wisdom call good. God's refusals are always merciful -- "severe mercies" at times but mercies all the same. God never denies us our hearts desire except to give us something better.
  • This hard place in which you perhaps find yourself is the very place in which God is giving you opportunity to look only to Him, to spend time in prayer, and to learn long-suffering, gentleness, meekness - in short, to learn the depths of the love that Christ Himself has poured out on all of us.
  • I am not a theologian or a scholar, but I am very aware of the fact that pain is necessary to all of us. In my own life, I think I can honestly say that out of the deepest pain has come the strongest conviction of the presence of God and the love of God.
  • If God, like a father, denies us what we want now it is in order to give us some far better thing later on. The will of God, we can rest assured, is invariably a better thing.
    • Elisabeth Elliot (2006). “God's Guidance: Finding His Will for Your Life”, p.46, Revell
  • Sometimes life is so hard you can only do the next thing.Whatever that is just do the next thing.God will meet you there.
  • Faith is not an instinct. It certainly is not a feeling - feelings don't help much when you're in the lions' den or hanging on a wooden Cross. Faith is not inferred from the happy way things work. It is an act of will, a choice, based on the unbreakable Word of a God who cannot lie, and who showed us what love and obedience and sacrifice mean, in the person of Jesus Christ
  • God never denies us our hearts desire except to give us something better.
    • Elisabeth Elliot (1988). “Loneliness: it can be a wilderness, it can be a pathway to God”,
  • The deepest lessons come out of the deepest waters and the hottest fires.
  • The willingness to be and to have just what God wants us to be and have, nothing more, nothing less, and nothing else, would set our hearts at rest, and we would discover the simpler life, the greater peace.
  • The secret is Christ in me, not me in a different set of circumstances.
  • Sometimes we want things we were not meant to have. Because he loves us, the Father says no. Faith trusts that no. Faith is willing not to have what God is not willing to give. Furthermore, faith does not insist upon an explanation. It is enough to know His promises to give what is good-he knows so much more about us than we do.
    • Elisabeth Elliot (1987). “A Lamp for My Feet: The Bible's Light for Daily Living”, 
  • Accept your loneliness. It is one stage, and only one stage, on a journey that brings you to God. It will not always last. Offer up your loneliness to God, as the little boy offered to Jesus his five loaves and two fishes. God can transform it for the good of others. Above all, do something for somebody else! 
    • Elisabeth Elliot (1999). “Taking Flight: Wisdom for Your Journey”, Baker Publishing Group
  • Jesus, Loneliness, Boys save quote report   
  • Leave it all in the Hands that were wounded for you
  • No marriage can survive without forgiveness. Marriage is a long term commitment between two sinners.
  • The will of God is not something you add to your life. It’s a course you choose. You either line yourself up with the Son of God…or you capitulate to the principle which governs the rest of the world.
  • Cruelty and wrong are not the greatest forces in the world. There is nothing eternal in them. Only love is eternal.
  • Waiting on God requires the willingness to bear uncertainty, to carry within oneself the unanswered question, lifting the heart to God about it whenever it intrudes upon one's thoughts.
  • Does it make sense to pray for guidance about the future if we are not obeying in the thing that lies before us today? How many momentous events in Scripture depended on one person's seemingly small act of obedience! Rest assured: Do what God tells you to do now, and, depend upon it, you will be shown what to do next.
    • Elisabeth Elliot (2002). “Quest for Love: True Stories of Passion and Purity”, p.145, Revell
  • The pain of loneliness is one way in which he wants to get our attention. We may be earnestly desiring to be obedient and holy. But we may be missing the fact that it is here, where we happen to be at this moment and not in another place or another time, that we may learn to love Him - here where it seems He is not at work, where He seems obscure or frightening, where He is not doing what we expected Him to do, where He is most absent. Here and nowhere else is the appointed place. If faith does not got to work here, it will not work at all.
  • To love God is to love His will. It is to wait quietly for life to be measured by One who knows us through and through. It is to be content with His timing and His wise appointment.
  • I'm convinced that there is nothing that can happen to me in this life that is not precisely designed by a sovereign Lord to give me the opportunity to learn to know Him.

Nate Saint - Service

And people who do not know the Lord ask why in the world we waste our lives as missionaries. They forget that they too are expending their lives... and when the bubble has burst they will have nothing of eternal significance to show for the years they have wasted.


When life's flight is over, and we unload our cargo at the other end, the fellow who got rid of unnecessary weight will have the most valuable cargo to present the Lord.Nate Saint

If God would grant us the vision, the word sacrifice would disappear from our lips and thoughts; we would hate the things that seem now so dear to us; our lives would suddenly be too short, we would despise time-robbing distractions and charge the enemy with all our energies in the name of Christ.

May God help us ourselves by the eternities that separate the Aucas from a Comprehension of Christmas and Him, who, though he was rich, yet for our sakes became poor so that we might, through his poverty, be made rich.

As we have a high old time this Christmas may we who know Christ hear the cry of the damned as they hurtle headlong into the Christless night without ever a chance. May we be moved with compassion as our Lord was. May we shed tears of repentance for these we have failed to bring out of darkness. Beyond the smiling scenes of Bethlehem may we see the crushing agony of Golgotha

It was traumatic but exhilarating to feel what my father felt. I remember the ache of the separation from the people I loved. I would never go back to that time. Yet the things I learned benefited my life.

Nate Saint

Tuesday, November 04, 2014

Quiet Leadership and the brain - Thomas B. Czerner

Your Brain Craves Patterns and searches for them endlessly
Thomas B. Czerner (2001)
Scientists have discovered that our brain is a connection machine. Or to be more specific, the underlying functionality of our brain is one of finding associations, connections, and links between bits of information. our thoughts, memories, skills, and attributes are vast sets of connections or “maps” joined together via complex chemical and physical pathways. I will call these connections maps from here on as it’s short, memorable word: however you can replace this word with circuits, wiring, or neural pathway if you prefer. 
To give you a sense of complexity of these maps, imagine a topographic map of one square mile of forest, on a sheet of paper one foot square. Add in the specific details of all the animals living there, from the microbes to major mammals, and the complete specifications of every plant, fungus, and bacteria. Include in the details of each object its size, shape, and color, smell, texture and a history of its interactions with every other object, and then include a snapshot of this information for every moment in time going back forty years. That should give you a sense of how rich these maps are. As it turns out, our brains are made up of maps, and maps of maps, and maps of maps of … you get my drift. These sets of maps are created through a process of brain making over a million new connection every second between different points. Quite something. 
So every thought, skill, and attribute we have is a complex map of connections between pieces of information stored in many parts of the brain. For example, the idea of a “car” is a complex, ever changing map of connections between our cognitive or high-level thinking center, our deeper motor skills center where our hardwired activities are held, and many other regions in the brain. The map for car for you might include links to the name and shape of every car you remember, the memory of your driving test including the look of panic on your instructor’s face when you nearly sideswiped that truck, the sound of your car when it is running smoothly, your understanding of how an engine works, the history of cars, and even remembering where you left your keys.
Consider what happens when we are trying to think. When We process any new idea we create a map of that idea in our mind, and then compare in subconsciously in a fraction of a second to our existing maps. If we can find solid enough links between the new idea and our current maps, if we can find connections, we create a new map that becomes a part of the layout of our brain: this new map literally becomes part of who we are.
Our brains like to create order out of the chaos of data coming into them, to make links between information so that our lives make more sense. We feel more comfortable surrounded by order, we feel better inside symmetry, where w can see how everything is connected. Thus we are constantly making links between maps to form new metamaps. A field  called Gestalt psychology has done significant research on how we look at situations and make meaning out of them.
One resecpected theory for why our brain likes to make everything fit together is that our maps help us predict the outcome of situations more easily. In On Intelligence, Jeff Hawkins, founder of Palm Computing , puts forward that our predictive abilities are the attributes that differentiate us most from the rest of the animal kingdom. The first time we use a new computer we’re confused as to where the shortcut buttons are: after a few days we have a mental map for how to hit them, and could do so with our eyes closed. The more hardwired our maps are for repetitive task, the more w’ve freed up our working memory for higher-level task.
Let’s go back to what happens when we create new mental maps. You can tell when you are going through this process yourself because you will probably stop speaking and start picturing concepts in your own mind. You can tell when other people are going through this process: their eyes become glazed, they reflect, and they often look up or away into the distance. When we are processing complex ideas we tap into our visual center: we see ideas as flashes in our mind’s eye.
We’ve all had the feeling of that sudden “aha” moment. It’s a moment when various ideas that were not linked before come together to form a new idea. It feels like we’ve seen something new. This is the moment of creation of a new map. There is a big release of energy when this new map forms, even though energy was required up front to connect the dots. There’s a tale about Archimedes, who after an insight about how to solve a scientific challenge, leaped out of the bath and ran through the streets naked shouting “Eureka!” such is the impact that insights can have on us.
When we create a new map we feel motivated to do something, and our face and voice change. When you watch for it, you can see that the act  of creating a new map is a specific event. It’s possible to pinpoint the exact moment it occurs. This is the moment of breakthrough, a moment when we see an answer to a challenge or problem. We’ll explore the anatomy of these aha moments further in the chapter called Dance Toward Insight, where we’ll go into exactly what happens in the brain during the few seconds before, while, and after we generate a new idea.
Consider what happens when we want to think a new thought, process a set of idea, make a decision, or unravel any kind of issue. For example, as a manager you might want to increase the sales in your division but are not sure you have the right people on board. Or as an executive you need to decide whether or not to confront a manager about their poor performance. In each instance we need to crate a new map in our brain. We literally have to “think things through for ourselves.”  It is important to realize this is still the case even when we are told what we “should” do; unless that “should” fits exactly with our existing maps. However, the creation of the new map releases substantial energy along with various neurotransmitters, and even changes the brain waves occurring. There is a sudden, strong motivation for action.
So let’s stop for a moment and reflect on the ideas I have put forward so far, and see what they might add up to.

To take any kind of committed action, people need to think things through for themselves;
People experience a degree of inertia around thinking for themselves due to the energy required;
The  act of having an aha moment give off ht kind of energy needed for people to become motivated and willing to take action

I become clear why our job as leader should be to help people maker their own connection. Instead of this, much of our energy going into trying to do the thinking of people, and then seeing if our ideas stick. As you will see in the next insight, this is usually a big wast of human resources. (And I mean that in every send of the word.)
There is a new world to explore here. If we are trying to help other people think, we might develop a whole new set of skills -- such as the ability to create the physical and mental space for people to want to think, the ability to help other simplify their thinking, the ability to notice certain qualities in peoples thinking, the ability to help others make their own connections. These are some of the most important skills that leaders must master today and central to being a Quiet Leader.

Saturday, June 14, 2014

Sunday, May 18, 2014

Inspector Morse: S1E2


Lewis: We should have arrested Martin straight away
Morse: why
Lewis: Morse's law, you said 'there's a fifty fifty chance who whoever found the body did the deed.
Morse: That isn't Morse's law. Morse's law is there is always time for another pint.

Monday, April 14, 2014

George Gorner on Norman Vincent Peal

I think Paul is appealing but Peal is appalling

George Gorner on Norman Vincent Peal

- TM, Liberalism,

Friday, April 11, 2014

Winston Churchill to the Canadian Senate

Author: Sir Winston Spencer Churchill
Date: December 30, 1941
Situation: Speech to the Canadian Senate and House of Commons, Ottawa

This is no time to speak of the hopes of the future, or the broader world which lies beyond our struggles and our victory. We have to win that world for our children. We have to win it by our sacrifices. We have not won it yet. The crisis is upon us....In this strange, terrible world war there is a place for everyone, man and woman, old and young; service in a thousand forms is open. There is no room now for the dilettante, the weakling, for the shirker, or the sluggard. The mine, the factory, the dockyard, the salt sea waves, the fields to till, the home, the hospital, the chair of the scientist, the pulpit of the preacher from the highest to the humblest tasks, all are of equal honour; all have their part to play.

Wednesday, April 09, 2014

Janet Reno on A Cultist or Christian

"A Cultist is one who has a strong belief in the Bible and second coming of Christ; who frequently attends bible studies who has a high level of financial giving to a Christian cause; who home schools their children; who has accumulated survival foods and has a strong belief in the second amendment; and who distrusts big government. Any of these may qualify (a person as a cultist] but certainly more than one [of these] would cause us to look at this person as a threat, and his family as  being in a risk situation that qualified for government interference."


Attorney General Janet Reno, Interview on 60 minutes, June 26, 1994

- Cultist, Conspiracy, Christian life, World View, Secularism,

Monday, April 07, 2014

William Carey on Perseverance

William Carey


When I left England, my hope of India=s conversion was very strong; but amongst so many obstacles, it would die, unless upheld by God. Well I have God and His Word is true. Though the superstitions of the heathen were a thousand times stronger than they are, and the example of the Europeans a thousand times worse; though I were deserted by all and persecuted by all, yet my faith, fixed on the sure Word, would rise above all obstructions and overcome every trial. God's cause will triumph.

- Mission, Perseverance

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